It's Official - Parisians are Polite

gendarmesPlease be honest. Have you been treated rudely in Paris? Because I haven’t. No one (with the exception of my non-French travelling companions) has ever been rude to me anywhere in France.

Your experience might be different – but are the French really any ruder than anyone else on the planet? Or is French arrogance an unsubstantiated global myth? I say it is. But an acquaintance, recently returned from about five minutes in the place (okay, 24 hours), disagrees – vehemently. This is so predictable and so very boring. I can’t even be bothered arguing about it.

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caf I am therefore delighted to announce that, contrary to popular opinion, the French are not the rudest nation in the world. Parisians are politer than residents of Sydney, and as polite as Londoners. They’re politer than the Thais in Bangkok, the Dutch in Amsterdam, the Russians in Moscow (no surprises there!) and – surprises here though – considerably more courteous than the Singaporeans. The world’s rudest city is Mumbai, second rudest is Bucharest; third rudest is Kuala Lumpur.

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On what do I base these seemingly wild claims? A survey of 35 cities by Reader’s Digest. Somewhat surprisingly, New York comes out tops, Zurich second, Toronto third, with Berlin, Sao Paolo and – of all places, Zagreb, fourth equal. I experienced extreme rudeness and supreme arrogance in Zagreb, but that was a few years ago. Times have obviously changed.

umbrellasAnyway, next time you hear a Francophobe dissing the French, you can set the record straight. And if you’re going to Paris for the first time, please don’t do so with your mind made up. Because you could be in for a rude awakening. You might just find that Parisians are polite...especially if you can dredge up a word or two of their language.

PS. Okay, the French have their impolite moments. But they’re the first to admit it. This is absolutely true. And vive la difference!
 
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Published Saturday, May 17, 2008 9:22 AM by Sally
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# re: It's Official - Parisians are Polite

Tuesday, May 20, 2008 8:03 AM by Adam

To be fair to one of the world's great stereotypes the French can be rude (especially when shouted at in English). However, in few places in the world have I experienced so much unexpected kindness - for instance having a complete stranger on the Paris metro warn me that my backpack was unzipped.

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# re: It's Official - Parisians are Polite

Tuesday, January 13, 2009 7:49 PM by OZgronk

I think its is the French politeness that always strikes me. They always say bonjour when entering a small shop or bar and even when entering a train cubicle.

So having someone walk into their bar and demand a coffee without a greeting and saying please must seem very rude to the owner.

# re: It's Official - Parisians are Polite

Tuesday, June 23, 2009 7:03 PM by Beijinger

is it really true to treat with others rudely in French? why are they rude to other people ? is there any special reason ? can anyone tell me it's reasons and significance?

# re: It's Official - Parisians are Polite

Wednesday, October 14, 2009 3:16 PM by Robyn

I have found the French to be utterly delightful and certainly never rude, quite the contrary they are courteous and helpful. Whilst standing with a map on a Paris corner I have been offered help by passersby. People all over France were, contrary to their reputation, always ready to help and offer guidance when needed.

# re: It's Official - Parisians are Polite

Thursday, October 15, 2009 8:05 AM by Sally

Robyn, my experiences there have been exactly the same. It's so good to hear someone else say it!

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